My Month Of Benevolence ¡Jn15 :12

We want to do what pleases us, what we want, what we desire, we want to satisfy our own interests even when we say that we love a person.
We want people who fit our criteria.
We support them, we forgive them because they are in line with what we expect from others.
The Lord invites us to gentleness, to love.
In our families, in the environments with which we live, let us be welcoming, let us be kind, let us be people who communicate the life around us, let us bear good fruit.
Very often we are criticized, we get angry without listening, we allow bitterness to saturate our hearts, we always want our words to be hurtful, shocking, harsh so that others feel our pain.
We believe that calming responses are a sign of weakness, that is, getting dominated.
When we think of love, it’s easy to think of good feelings.
We don’t feel love when we’re tempted to anger, impatience, our own interests.
Love makes us renounce these natural reactions and words that unsettle.
We want people to change, we don’t want to love them as they are, we want them to be different and this is proof that what interests us is our happiness and our comfort more than the love of people. other.
The Lord wants to discover our language of love.
The world has a lot of swear words, verbal abuse from parents and children alike, but we have to be role models for the world.
Let us speak decently as Jesus would have done for us.
When we say a word, it is a seed that will germinate, whatever we say can become reality and influence our lives.
Words are like seeds that bear fruit and the Lord calls out to us all this morning.
We must not speak up and down, we must measure the weight of our words and only come out with words that soften hearts.
In 1 Kings, 12: 7 – And this is what they said to him: If today you render service to this people, if you yield to them, and if you answer them with kind words, they will be your servants for ever.
Pray for your utterances to be filled with love.
We should not treat others with contempt and superiority.
If we serve others, they will serve us too.
We must honor our words and especially respect others when we speak to them.
Soft words calm terror, says the Lord.
So let’s be careful about what comes out of our mouths otherwise we will do more harm than good.
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